I Love the Smell of Jerry Garcia in the Morning

Awww, patchouli. The smell truly brings me back to the days when I was supposed to be attending Dominican College and instead was following the Grateful Dead and selling peanut butter sandwiches for a dollar or whatever anyone would trade me.  Although I never made much money I did score free tickets, lots of crystals and the ability to not shave my arm pits for an entire year. Because of said arm pit hair and lack of running water I did what only a girl could do while sporting a tie dyed Guess dress, masked the odor with patchouli oil. The smell of patchouli is a very controversial subject along the same lines of whether or not Katie Holmes is now a robot and why doesn't Jennifer Lopez realize that Marc Anthony is really Skeletor and who really cares if Jennifer Aniston is a spinster because lets face it, she looks pretty darn happy to me and if I had that body I could care less about having a steady dude.

Anyway, I love the smell of patchouli and I have finally found a family friendly (meaning that I don't smell like a dead hippie to my hubby) scent in a luxurious cream.  It is available at Target and made by Boots. It is Patchouli and Lavender and it leaves just enough scent on your skin that you can enjoy the free loving smell without overpowering those around you with your earthiness.  The best part is that it is under 10 bucks and you really feel pampered after using it. It smells delicious and it is very thick so perfect for the cold winter months when your skin needs some extra love. Like love that only a Sugar Magnolia from Uncle John's Band would dig!

A funny thing happened on my way to buy drugs...

It was that time of the month again. Yes, time to go on a big drug binge. We have pills for our nerdy side (allergies), pills for our old man side (cholesterol) and some pills to make Mommy happy (no comment). While waiting for my numerous refills to process I took a gander at the Walgreens supply of cosmetics. (really, what was I supposed to do? Look at lawn ornaments?) 

Somewhere between Physicians Formula and Rimmel of London a light bulb went off.  In the most recent issue of Vogue I had admired a models lipstick and found that it was a Revlon Lipstain and LipBalm called Gothic. Could it  look that good in real life without airbrushing and a professional applying it?  I decided to roll the dice and try it out. (this happened as soon as I hit the parking lot because I just had to know) Alas, I was not disappointed. It is a pure, light and clean looking red lipstain that truly stays put.  You have to apply it expertly as it dries fast (seriously, 30 seconds) and then you can use the balm to keep your lips from drying out. The balm has a nice thick consistency and also lasts a long time.  I have been wearing it for 5 hours and it is still staying put. A really lovely surprise for under 10 bucks. 

Madge from Palmolive would cry happy tears over this one

A kiss on the hand may be quite continental but old lady hands are never a girls best friend.  For anyone out there that hasn't read that old hands age you put your hand up. Any takers? Just as I thought. Crickets. This is a neglected appendage that is the last thing we think about with our days filled with combating wrinkles on our face and trying to get our asses back to the days when we knew the lyrics to Madonna's "Like a Virgin".

I do not have the magic solution but I have found a hand creme that deserves attention. It is L'Occitane Shea Butter Hand Creme and it is in two words simply divine.  It comes in a tube which looks incredibly chic so when you whip it out people are sure to think you are some kind of fabulous. (which of course you are) It smells yummy and a little goes a long way. It really makes a difference with your hands and they look marvy right away.  They have free standing stores but you can also buy it at the little slice of Heaven that we like to call Sephora.  Plus I have given this as a gift to several people and trust me, they are loving this hot mess for it!

It's like magic y'all

When it comes to information about concealer's I am like Kate Hudson between boyfriends, you know, desperate.  I really want to like concealer and everyone knows that I need concealer but I never felt like I could find one that didn't look like I was auditioning for a spot with the Ringling Brothers or as Baby Jane The Remake.  I have a drawer full of more rejects than John Mayer's booty calls. 

Around 4 months ago I bought a little set of Benefit products from Sephora. It came with generous samples of High Beam (love) and Posie Tint (check love again).  It also had a pot of Erase Paste which has the consistency of tile grout.  Yet I was curious because I had read a lot of positive reviews of this product. Guess what? It works. The trick is moderation.  And by moderation I mean the tiniest possible amount that you can apply.  What you want to do is apply your eye cream and let is set for a good five minutes.  Then take a DAB of this product and pat, pat, pat until it melts into your skin. When you first put it on you may be skeptical because it seems that the color won't match (I am on the fair side and I have the Erase Paste in medium) but give it a chance to set. It really settles in like a dream and doesn't look cakey or make the little lines become a big problem. Plus, one pot of this will last you a very long time. At least as long as Kate Hudson's next three relationships. (about a year all together)

It's like shooting fish in a barrell

Here is the thing. I subscribe to about 6 fashion magazines each month. Do I have a problem? Perhaps, but it is way cheaper than psychotherapy and it gives me a welcome diversion to what normally comes in my mailbox.  Because of this dirty little habit I am inundated with ads about the latest and greatest. I am ashamed to say I fall for it every flippin' time.  Have you ever thought about your bottom lashes? Does anyone? We obsess about our noses, our pores, our lips and hips, our hair, our feet etc but never once have I thought about my bottom lashes.  Until the February magazines started rolling in.

Ok, I was totally sucked into the gimmick that I needed my bottom lashes to be lush and I was certain this was what was keeping me from my supermodel status.  Clinique has come out with a mascara specifically for bottom lashes. Of course I had to have it.  I paid my 10.00 and tried it out. The only thing I can say is meh. It definitely covered my lower lashes but it just didn't jive with how I like to look. Maybe it is for a (dare I even say it?) younger type gal who wants a Twiggy type effect.  As for me, it kind of ran toward the end of the day so it added to my already dark circles that I have been sporting since 2001.  But if you feel the need to try it, go for it. Live the dream!

Marlo Thomas Eat Your Heart Out

So this very Wednesday morning I was getting ready for work and happened to walk by the full length mirror and catch a glimpse of my nearly naked self. Who was that? What was she doing with my head on her? Had it really come to this? Sadly it was me with my head attached and yes, it really had come to that. Deep breath, I still had to go to work. I had no choice....I needed camoflage and I needed it fast. I found my skinniest black pants and my highest purple shoes. I put on a long shirt. Still felt lousy. And chunky like I should be in the Husky section at Sears. What in the heck is a girl to do with just 10 minutes left to spare to make herself feel presentable?

The only thing that might have perked me up at that point would have been non invasive liposuction or hitting the lottery. Obviously this was not going to happen in the time that I had left so I went to my good friends at Benefit Cosmetics for a little help. They did not disappoint. I applied "That Gal" face brightening primer and boy did it lift this kids spirits to a whole new level. It is unlike any primer that I have tried. It looks like a funky pink right out of the tube but once it is blended it is like walking around with a soft pink light above your face all day. Your skin looks lit from within and it really does even out your complexion. It is magic in a tube and I didn't even need any foundation. You can build on it if you need a little extra perk during the day, it does not cake.  I will worry about my wobbly bits another day!

Turn on, Tune in and Lather Up

Ok, lets cut to the chase here. Amino Acid Shampoo....am I missing something? Why in the world would we want to put a product on our lovely brain bucket that has the words "amino" and "acid" in it? Just the thought of it doesn't conjure up images of luscious locks.  More like scary hair ala Donald Trump.

Amino Acid Shampoo from Kiehls has been around for ages and although the name is a little intimidating, this little bottle is simply amazing. I am a huge fragrance person and my shampoo better smell yummy.  This definitely does and leaves your hair Kardashian shiny.  It has coconut oil in it which must be the magic elixir for gorgeous hair. It has the perfect amount of lather and leaves your hair clean not scarecrow dry.  Kiehls  is a company who loves to sample you to death so if you are unsure, give them a call and ask for a sample. There are a handful of Kiehls stores around the country but they are also located in Neiman Marcus and Nordstrom. Check Neiman Marcus first as they often times have Gift With Purchase on Kiehls products.